Willingness is the key to changing your situation

Earlier on, I wrote about  what is needed in order to reposition yourself. Repositioning yourself is about changing the way you do things in order to get a better outcome. This can be:

• financial,- Bad credit
• social, - you want to lose weight. stop drinking.
• spiritual-you are back sliding, you want to uplift your spirit
• Relationship- stuck in a rotten relationship, 

It may even be an addiction or anything that you are so dearly determined to alter. The process of repositioning yourself demands a lot of willingness. Willingness to change is a strength.Willingness to change is courage and courage is simply the willingness to be afraid and act anyway. 

I will be going into details of how you can reposition yourself  financially, socially, spiritual and in your relationships and even your business.

Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, an American basketball legend once said:......"I think that the good and the great are only separated by the willingness to sacrifice". Whenever change happens, there is bound to be some form of pain. Be it physical or emotional. It is only if you are willing to go through the pain of the process that you start to make in-roads toward changing your situation. You need to be willing to go through the process of rejection, being blamed, being seen as someone abnormal. As long as you are committed  and disciplined.

• If you are stuck in a dead end job, you must be willing to look for another one. Take action action. Start applying for a new job, start your own business, go back to school to learn new skills, give up free time to dedicate to addressing your issues.
• If you are stuck in a rotten relationship ( and you have done everything possible to revive it);you must be willing to move on.
• If you are stuck in a bad financial situation (falling behind all your repayments, credit cards companies knowing your phone number as if its their own), you must be willing to get out of the situation.
• If you want to learn another language; start attending classes, look for new friends who speak the language

Whatever it takes to start changing. Do it. Willingness is the answer. However,  I want to make it clear to you, willingness is not a one-time- decision or  action (unless you are doing a one off event). Life changes require an determinations to continuously be willing to commit yourself. It is a process, and like any process, it is on going.

I sign off by saying: where the willingness is great; difficulties cannot be great. So start today. Persist and be willing to change. Its all in your control.

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